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Abortion

Discussion in 'Mature Discussion' started by ansem the wise 59, Dec 10, 2007.

  1. ü

    ü 30•05•2010

    No you wouldn't. So if a women didn't want that child, why suffer for it?
     
  2. demon of darkness

    demon of darkness New Member

    Because you Should always want a child. That's what I can't understand, why would someone not want a child?

    Secondly Parents should be willing to walk through hell for their kids, show unconditional love for them, and always be willing to make their kids happy even at the expense of their parents happiness.

    But some people are so selfish they place themselves above their children. Like that Casey Athony woman, if I got a hold of her I kill her. There was no excuse for what she did. Just like there is no excuse for abortion.
     
  3. ü

    ü 30•05•2010

    1. Maybe because there to young, no money, The child could kill them? The child could be disabled. If the circumstances are correct a person shouldn't have to suffer for a child.

    2. Yes parents should, in a sense. They shouldn't go through hell for that person tho. But if its not born, then its not there child. Its a thing growing inside them, like a tumor.

    3. AND THATS WHAT MAKES YOU A DISGUSTING HUMAN. You preaching about how everyone deserves a life, and all this crap. But you would kill a person, who is someone else's child? Yes maybe you could/should be against abortion. But what makes me hate people like you is that you think KILL OTHER, DOING WHAT YOUR CONDEMNING THEM FOR? will solve. Think for a second.
     
  4. demon of darkness

    demon of darkness New Member

    1. Then what about adoption?

    2. This is what makes me sick, how can you compare it to a tumor? It is a human being, scientist themselves don't even know when life begins so it is not a tumor.

    3. There is a difference between people who are good and people who are bad. You have to punish bad people, and sometimes get rid of them to protect the good people.
     
  5. ü

    ü 30•05•2010

    1. Why would they adopt if i don't want there own child. And if you meant give it up for adoption then you should be more spisific. But if that where the case why would they go through nine month's of pain, saggy boobs, stretch marks, and cellulite, for something they don't want?

    2. no comment, read my previous post's.

    3. And by punishing bad people your doing what your condemning them for, which makes you a hypocrite. Why is it bad for them to kill your beloved little fetus, but you can kill them?
     
  6. demon of darkness

    demon of darkness New Member

    1. Then women should get over their appearence and worry about important things.

    2. How do you compare it to a tumor? Tumors are bad, babies are not causing anyone harm.

    3. The fetus is inoccent but Criminals are guilty. Or do you not realize the difference between a baby and a criminal?
     
  7. ü

    ü 30•05•2010

    1. Like there jobs which they would probably loose if there away for 6 months?

    2. I know of 3 people who DIED because of there baby, think again.

    3. I know the difference. But i wasn't talking about the baby, your the criminal. You think killing other people is justice?
     
  8. demon of darkness

    demon of darkness New Member

    1. A baby is more important than a Job. A babies life is more important than a job.

    2. That was an accident, people can't control that.

    3. Then what is your idea of justice.
     
  9. ü

    ü 30•05•2010


    1. Not really, who cant get anywhere without money. And so the baby would probably die within a few months anyway.

    2. But what if you knew it would kill you? Youd get rid of it then wouldn't you.

    3. Prison? Community service. But there for true crimes. Abortion isn't a crime. Where as killing women who aren't able to cope with being pregnant IS.
     
  10. demon of darkness

    demon of darkness New Member

    1. So people should let the woman have time to have the baby and then give up for adoption and let her keep her job. That is the right thing to do.

    2. If I knew that one of us would live and one would die, then I would tell the doctor to save my baby and let me die. If both of us would die then yes I would abort it, but that is the only good reason I see to have an abortion.

    3. Prison is place where people get food, a bed, and free healthcare while people like Twilight Keyblade's dad don't have any healthcare. You call that justice?

    If someone killed your mother then you would be so angry you would want that person dead right?
     
  11. Avalantos

    Avalantos Mr. Detective


    1. Some countries don't have an adoption system.

    2. So the baby would have to grow up in a world without a mother? That doesn't seem very fair, life is difficult for those who lose their mother as she is a key role in everyones life.

    3. Its the way your country is run, there is no free health care, its is payed for by taxes and it is the bare minimum in prisons. Some country health care is not optional, it is illegal not to have health insurance and if you cannot afford it the government helps you.

    P.S - Love the comparison of a baby and a tumor, lets me add this.

    If you had a parasite in your body (yes this does happen) would you let it live off you because you believe its a living thing and its the right thing to do?
     
  12. Desert Warrior

    Desert Warrior Well-Known Member

    For me, it depends what it is. And if it was seriously harming me, then I'd get rid of it. But babies that are still in the womb aren't parasites. A baby in the womb is a symbiotic relationship, but it isn't a parasite because parasites harm the host. Most pregnancies, the baby does not harm the mother.
     
  13. Avalantos

    Avalantos Mr. Detective

    I understand that, but his argument thing is that its living and if you kill it your a murderer. Shouldn't the same thing be said if a parasite was inside of you?
     
  14. ü

    ü 30•05•2010

    Your right, in most case's the baby does not harm the mother. But if it did, or the mother saw it as a parasite, Does she not have the right to abort it? Why should someone be deemed as 'evil' and a 'murderer', for ridding themselves of a parasite.
     
  15. Desert Warrior

    Desert Warrior Well-Known Member

    And by asking that, you're getting the subject into a broader position. I'm guessing that everybody only thinks about either the woman or the baby when they enter that debate.

    But with what you're asking, that then leads to more topics, like should we kill animals, do animals have the same right to live as we do, etc.

    Bringing that in makes it harder to make a decision.

    Maybe it's not, because the parasite is intentionally harming it's host. And then saying that babies don't intentionally harm the mother brings up the question of if animals have the same level of intelligence as other things, or do they act only on instinct.

    I don't understand why a mother would see the baby as a parasite. But I myself don't think she has the right to abort the baby just because she thinks it's a parasite. I'm one of those people who see abortion as the easy way out of having a child the person doesn't want. And to me, I think tough, she shouldn't have the right to do so. Sure, it may not seem fair if she's not allowed to do that, but I also think life's not fair.

    To me, people who get abortions just because they don't want a child are being greedy and selfish. It bugs me so much that so many people these days are so selfish and think of themselves before others.
     
    Last edited: Feb 18, 2009
  16. demon of darkness

    demon of darkness New Member

    But it's not a parasite, no matter if the mother thinks it is or not. Scientific fact tells it is not a parasite. So they is not a good reason for having an abortion.

    Kupo, let me explain what I am trying to say.

    Why do people have sex before marriage? Why do people put themselves at risk for getting pregnant? Why do they put themselves in situations where they could get raped?

    Because their stupid and not responsible. Everyone should wait until marriage before having sex, that is the right thing to do. And everyone should want to do the right thing, so why don't they? Because of many factors, and those factors I want to get rid of.

    When I said opinion does'nt matter, I meant that in the end our opinions don't matter. If God says that something is wrong then it's wrong, because God's word is law and that is not opinion.
     
  17. ü

    ü 30•05•2010

    And has god said to you this is wrong in a vision?

    And does it make me stupid, that i would rather walk the 10 minutes home from town and risk getting raped. Or am i evil for the 5 minute straight where i walk through a unpopulated area to get home after school and risk getting raped?

    People have sex before marriage for pleasure, excitement. To become closer to someone. Yes they risk getting pregnant, and if they don't want the baby there's technology to get rid of it. So why shouldn't they keep there happiness and abort? Because god said so? Because you'll hunt them down and torture them?

    If i myself, got pregnant now, i would probably abort. Because what life would that child have with a mother with no job? Unable to finished education. I plan on having children but after im finished schooling and college. And i don't see that as selfish. In a way its almost selfless, not letting a child come into the world having nothing. Even if that women doesn't want the child and abort's it. It will still hurt her because of maternal connection.

    But women should be able to choose to have that baby or not. And not be deemed murderer for the latter.
     
  18. Desert Warrior

    Desert Warrior Well-Known Member

    That's why I think they should adopt the baby instead of aborting it. And maybe you're not being selfish if you did that. I suppose it's just the broad thing of having an abortion to avoid having a child that I think it selfish. True, I cannot truly judge unless I know all the facts relating to it. But also with what you said about bringing a child into the world with nothing, there's worse. Pulse mentioned this though.

    I don't know if Ireland has adoption or not. But wouldn't you adopt the child if you had the chance?
     
    Last edited: Feb 18, 2009
  19. demon of darkness

    demon of darkness New Member

    But why put yourself in the situation. Just call a parent to pick you up.

    But that is wrong in the eyes of God. God said only have sex in marriage.



    And what would you tell your future kids? I killed your little brother/sister. If I knew my mother did something like that then I could never forgive her, I would be disgusted with her. She killed my brother/sister, and I would hate myself for being the child of a murderer.
     
  20. WayToTheDawn

    WayToTheDawn New Member

    My opinion on abortion is that, it totally comes down to the person. People say it's not right. But, is anything in the modern world "right" today? While your complaining about abortion you may as well complain about the masses of other issues which face humanity today. But, that's besides the point

    Humanity is always going to press forward, as long as there is a system in place to stop us, humanity will always try to push the boundary. I say, it's down to the individual. If you can afford it, it's not against your belief system and you want it done, then go for it. I know it contradicts my opinion on Capital Punishment being murder. But at least it's a being which has not begun its life as a human, being terminated, and not a criminal who has done wrong.

    Insurrection man, it's where it's heading
     
    Last edited: Feb 18, 2009

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