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Job/Occupation Experiences

Discussion in 'General' started by Angel, Jun 15, 2012.

  1. Angel

    Angel Lion Heart Staff Member Administrator

    Someone has to have a funny story about when they were working, maybe how they deal with crazy people daily, or even a regular story in general about where you work and what you do. I'll start first.

    I work at the Boys and Girls Club. This code explains what it is:
    "To enable all young people, especially those who need us most, to reach their full potential as productive, caring, responsible citizens."
    And trust me, some of these kids need help when it comes to their home-life and problems.

    Beside that, I'm a Youth Development Staff which is self explanatory. I develop the minds and bodies of youths. We play games and what not. Occasionally we go on field trips which I love because I'm literally getting paid to watch movies, bowl, swim, eat free pizza etc.

    Anywho story time, today I wrote 4 kids up for the first time because they are starting to get out of hand with not listening and playing around. 3 of these boys I caught running out of the Girl's Restroom when a girl was in there. The other boy was harassing some girls and holding the Girl's bathroom door so they couldn't get out. I wrote them up. I truly don't like writing kids up because its the summer time and we should all have a good time and the main reason because of the paperwork. I'm so lazy if I wanted to do paperwork. I would get an accounting job or whatever. Plus, On top of that, I have watch one boy because he molested his 5 year old brother in the past. He was bothering some girl today. UGH!!! Exhausting! On the bright side, I got paid today!
     
  2. miscellaneous2711

    miscellaneous2711 New Member

    Working in fast food isn't the greatest either. Everyday younhave people
    That must not be able to read the menu. If it says we have a bacon cheeseburger, chances are that we have a bacon cheeseburger.
     
  3. Kitty

    Kitty I Survived The BG Massacre Staff Member Administrator

    Moved to General, because I don't think there's a debate here.

    @Angel- We appear to have similar jobs- I run a daycare/preschool. The Boys and Girls Club does good work, but I have to say I hate you all just a little bit, because you steal all the school age kids from us with your ridiculously cheap rates we can in no way compete with. <_<

    Paperwork must die. And half of it is completely redundant, but I have to do it anyhow or the state gets irritated come inspection time. :rolleyes:

    I don't have any funny stories to share for today, though I do have one for dealing with crazy people. I totally had to fire someone today (and yeah, she deserved it), and she has her mother call up and bitch at me about it. Now, this isn't a high school girl, this is a woman with her own kids. My mom and I are pretty good friends, but I would never want my mother to do anything like that. It's mortifying. And of course my ex-employee insists she didn't tell her mom to call me, but come on. :rolleyes: I've been torn between thinking this whole situation is hilarious and being offended all day long, and I'm desperate for the weekend to just get here already.
     
  4. Desert Warrior

    Desert Warrior Well-Known Member

    I know. And the paperwork for my job takes 15-30 minutes to get all folded and put away properly.

    Anyways, I work at a gas station. And I swear this job is slowly making me hate people little by little. You meet all kinds of people. Intelligent people, funny people, nice people, tired people, etc. But most of all, you tend to meet some not so intelligent people. I don't know how many times somebody has come in for gas and didn't even bother to look for their pump number. And one woman called me useless because I told her I wasn't allowed to guess her pump number (Ruined my entire night). And one person I know who works a graveyard shift was afraid this one woman was going to attack her. She was screaming and yelling at my coworker to go outside with her for whatever reason (I think it is something involving gas) and this lady had my coworker cornered behind the counter and everything.
     
  5. Angel

    Angel Lion Heart Staff Member Administrator

    I find that quite funny! I always look for my pump number because I don't want to look stupid. Anyway, do you ever worry of robbers?!

    Oopsies. Sorry. I was viewing the Debates tab and must have thought I was on the General Discussion tab.

    Oh my God. How do you do it? Keeping up with children and staff. I'm never ever going to consider being a teacher or anything like that for my true occupation. I know you definitely deserve way more credit!
    Yeah, they are definitely cheap. Normally families with low income come to the Boys and Girls Club. Haha come to think of it there are few daycares here.
    Tell me about it!

    You would think people of a certain age would show some decency and composure then the real world hits you.

    I'm sorry. You must meet a lot of (umm thinks of nice way of saying it) ignorant people.
     
  6. miscellaneous2711

    miscellaneous2711 New Member

    Well it's not like the menu is ambiguous it is clearly hung and stated for all to see. But it really is hard to find a nice way to put it I wish there was.
     
  7. LDC1121

    LDC1121 New Member

    Well this is my second week working at my local AMC Movie Theater and this week I was confronted by customers about not giving them their tickets (when I did, they just dropped them and tried to blame it on me), or not letting them pay their totals with credit cards (if the back of the card isn't signed they have to present I.D. in order for me to swipe the card, which the did not have), and for carding them when they were trying to get into an R rated movie ( it's the law so don't get angry at me about it) All in all this job has made me realize that I definitely want to be the one making the movies someday instead of selling them!
     
  8. Kitty

    Kitty I Survived The BG Massacre Staff Member Administrator

    I love this comment so much. Unfortunately, it is only so true.

    Honestly, I have no idea. Some days, like today, I feel like I'm gonna go crazy if I have to listen to one more screaming kid or attempt to placate one more obnoxious parent/staff member. Being nice to people isn't my strong point, so I tend to throw that crap onto my mom, who runs the center with me and is better with liking people but less good with remembering to pay the bills on time and doing paperwork. Unfortunately, she's on vacation, so I'm stuck with pretending I don't think everyone's a moron. It's hard.

    But most of the time the kids are sweet, and I don't know what I'd do if I weren't doing this.

    At least you put it away. I just stack it on piles, which I stack on other piles until I have no choice but to take the time to file it away.

    Working in fast food has got to be one of the worst jobs ever. I've never done it, but my sister worked in a place for two years, and the stories she'd tell....

    This is horrible, but it's making me feel much better to know that other people hate their jobs sometimes, too.
     
  9. miscellaneous2711

    miscellaneous2711 New Member

    yeah but really in any service job, you are going to run into people who know what they're doing on occasion but mostly not so much
     
  10. Desert Warrior

    Desert Warrior Well-Known Member

    I wish people were more like you. But unfortunately they use the excuse of there are no pump numbers, even though there are. And no, I've never really worried about being robbed.

    Anyways, I fear this thread will become a place for me to gripe and moan and complain about my job. Fun stuff.

    This guy had his 19 year old son with him as he was buying a can of beer. Now I know odds are the guy wouldn't give any booze to his son. But unfortunately the rules are that I have to ID people in a group if they appear to be under 21 (Even if the person doing the buying is 50). And of course if somebody in said group is under 21 I'm not allowed to sell the group alcohol. As I'm trying to explain this, another guy (Who had absolutely no reason to do so) decides to get himself involved and tell me that I am wrong and the higher ups who told me what to do when IDing people are wrong. He's saying that California law basically states that it doesn't matter about the ages of people in a group if the person buying the alcohol is legally allowed to. And of course this person is wrong because if somebody (Of legal age) buys alcohol and then gives said alcohol to a minor I could lose my job because of it. And not only would I lose my job, I would either be on a 2 year probationary period where I couldn't get a job that sells alcohol or I just won't ever be allowed to be hired at a place that sells alcohol (Not sure which one).

    Oh, and I admit in the past that whenever I've gotten into a conversation about whether or not we should have an official language everybody should know my opinion has always been that perhaps we should simply for convenience. But aside from that, I've never really cared. But funny thing is my job is simply the greatest argument to support having some sort of official language that everybody should be required to know. I may have Hispanic blood in me, but I'm white. I don't look like I would know any other language except English. And so many people come up to buy something and start speaking Spanish and don't know a single word of English. It isn't too bad if somebody is around to translate for me, but there are some days where I am by myself and don't have a Spanish speaking coworker nearby.

    And to continue my griping, customers aren't even the only bad part of the job. So many of my coworkers just don't care and do things wrong. And if somebody who does things correctly (Such as myself) tries to tell the manager, it becomes something like "Well why didn't you make sure it was done right" or something. And there can be an annoying bit of favoritism at times. One of my supervisors absolutely hated it when me and a certain coworker (Let's go with coworker A because this story might take a little while) would talk while on the job. I guess she thought we weren't doing our job when we were talking. And yet another coworker (And this one shall be coworker B so I can differentiate between coworkers) of mine got in trouble with that supervisor because me and that coworker weren't communicating at all. And coworker A was telling me about one day this supervisor was just talking to another coworker (C so I can identify them) in the back for 20 minutes (And not about work related things either) while coworker A was stuck up front with the customers.

    And one last final complaint about the job (Because I might go on and on if I continue too much). A few weeks ago I sent in a request to have June 22nd and July 2nd off. On the 22nd my dad may need a ride to the airport for a flight to Missouri (Visiting family, yearly summer trip, unfortunately I have to miss it due to work). And on the 2nd is when he comes back and he'll probably need a ride back home. 2 other coworkers also requested the 22nd off, but I was the first person to request it off. For whatever reason, we don't get advance notice of whether or not our request is approved. Instead we have to wait for the schedule to come out. And so the schedule that has the 22nd on it came out and guess what. I'm working that day. The coworker who sent in the request a day after me was the one who got that day off. And I have a feeling that I won't get the 2nd off either because that day is one of the days chosen throughout the year that we're not allowed to request off because they expect a higher amount of customers at that time (These days are around the holidays and of course the 2nd is 4th of July weekend). Aside from the blatant BS that comes with us not allowed to request those days off, I have a feeling I won't get the 2nd off because it is one of those days.
     
  11. Mike

    Mike Member

    I'm a part time college professor (technically speaking, an 'adjunct professor'), and occasionally I have to deal with frustrated students who underachieve, and then piss and moan about not getting into some graduate studies program, or something else.

    Griping about how "They pay my salary" (which isn't even true, my paycheque is usually the result of government grant, which I apply for and am awarded based on my research publications) and so I should be more than willing to just give them A+'s.

    Tough nuts?
     
  12. Kitty

    Kitty I Survived The BG Massacre Staff Member Administrator

    Yes, I have a feeling I'm going to spend a lot of time in this thread as well.

    God, this! I work with some of the laziest people ever. And some of the most stubborn. And it's worse in the people who've been doing this the longest. At least my newest employees have an excuse sometimes, but I've got staff who've been in child care for 10-15 years, and they're the worst ones about getting to do things the right way, because they're so set in their ways that they listen to my suggestions, then just keep on doing whatever they've been doing. We have monthly, state-mandated staff meetings which are just completely idiotic because we say the same exact thing every time because people don't bother to change. Like seriously, how hard is it to stay off your damn cell phone when you're on the clock? Yet I am constantly catching and bitching at people for it. :rolleyes:

    Not to mention how annoying it can be working entirely with women. I don't even care if this is sexist, but women freaking gossip and backstab each other all the time. I can't leave the building for more than an hour or two without coming back and hearing about some drama. They tattle as much as the kids do.
     
  13. Angel

    Angel Lion Heart Staff Member Administrator

    Oke. I was ease dropping at first unintentional but then you know. It was one of those things you had to know. It was something around the lines of a boy was sent to the foster home for molesting his 5 year old brother. I know this kid because he's new and about 13 years old. At first, before I knew this. I could tell that the way he treated others and actions were pretty unusual. Anyway, my boss told me to keep an extremely close eye on him. So not only am I stuck with 50 kids to watch but him as well. He caused so much trouble that day. He kept going in the bathroom and closing the door on kids so they couldn't get out of the bathroom. You know, pushing against the door. Lastly, he went over the line. He was harassing this girl which I told him to leave alone because he was chasing her. He told me "She may not act like it but she likes me" But you know kids, they never listen. He went out of the gym and the girl to but I had to watch the kids inside not outside plus there were co-workers outside. From what I was told, he was telling the girl to go on a date with him, blowing kisses, following her around. So not subtle. In the end, we sent him home and he's not coming back.

    Things like this really make me wonder. What goes on at home for some people? And their issue?
     
  14. Kitty

    Kitty I Survived The BG Massacre Staff Member Administrator

    Seriously. The crap that goes on in some of these kids' homes is unbelievable. We, until very recently, had a four year old who would scream and hit and yell obscenities at the other kids and teachers in his class, and would threaten to shoot people with guns or stab them with knives. You can't tell me that kid has a stable home life- that is just not normal four year old behavior.

    It's sad when you have to call social services, but sometimes that's what you have to do to help these kids- there's only so much you can do while they're with you during the day.
     
  15. Desert Warrior

    Desert Warrior Well-Known Member

    I swear we're just gonna add more things for the other to say.

    Fun stuff about gossip.

    About a month and a half ago my manager talked to me about 3 different things I said. Out of these 3 things, I can understand about my manager hearing about one of them. A coworker said his stomach wasn't feeling good so I jokingly said "Maybe you have cancer." The supervisor who was also standing there started chewing me out about how I was cursing my coworker. So it would make sense for that supervisor to tell my manager I said that.

    The second comment I was in trouble for was also a joke (Hell, all three comments were jokes). Now I'm bugged about my manager hearing about this comment because it should've stayed between me and the person I said it to. The person I said it to was also a supervisor but the way she laughed and the way I said the comment (A super whiny voice) made it sound as though she knew it was a joke. And of course somehow this spread out to more than just my manager knowing about it (The joke was essentially hinting that another coworker had AIDS and somehow that coworker heard about it). I'm not quite sure how my manager and the other coworker heard about this comment (Again, it was just between me and that supervisor) but I can understand that somehow word got to my manager.

    Now the third comment I was in trouble for is what pisses me off the most. Now, I don't remember exactly what I said but I do know that somehow whatever I said spread throughout other coworkers and my words became twisted. And I have no idea how other people managed to hear about it. The coworker I said it to didn't care at all and the gossip spread all the way back to her. Another coworker who probably heard it didn't tell anybody, and he's the type who if he has a problem with me he'd come up to me about it. I don't remember any other coworkers nearby, so the only way my manager heard about it was either there was a coworker I didn't notice nearby or the security cameras have microphones in them. And the funnest part is this third comment ended up getting two pregnant women who work in the same place terrified of me.

    So basically through people somehow finding out about things I said and gossiping about it, I became a hateful misogynist who punches the babies of pregnant women.
     
  16. Kitty

    Kitty I Survived The BG Massacre Staff Member Administrator

    Lovely. People will believe anything.

    I don't often hear gossip about myself, though I'm sure it's out there. What I get is two or three different people coming up to me at various times to tell me what is supposed to be the same story about someone else. Like, say a parent comes in and makes a comment to a teacher about something (let's say her kid wasn't changed when she picked him up yesterday or something). The teacher she told will tell me about it and put the blame on someone else, then two other teachers will tell me, but blow it way out of proportion so that if I didn't know them, I'd think the parent was about to yank their kid out of the center, and also point the blame at anyone besides themselves, but probably not the same person the first teacher blamed. Trying to figure out what actually happened is practically impossible. And if I ask the parent the next day if she's unhappy, chances are it was such a non issue she barely remembers. :rolleyes:
     
  17. Angel

    Angel Lion Heart Staff Member Administrator

    (I forgot, I think I can post in threads that aren't over three months)

    Okay, this boy had me cracking up (laughing). He is a 5 year old. Naturally, he was with his 5 year old group. He starts spazzing out, jumping all over the place, off chairs, growling, running around, crawling on the floor. I mean. I can't really explain what I saw. They called his mom but until she got there. I eventually had to be with him. The only way I could calm him down was to talk to him and let him explain the picture on his folder but when I would stop and talk to someone else. He gets all hyper and runs out of the gym and jumps into a puddle. He must be ADHD or something. It was a hilarious but aggravating experience. Last year his mom explained what he had but I forgot.
     
  18. Kitty

    Kitty I Survived The BG Massacre Staff Member Administrator

    I think way too often, people pull "Oh, he has ADHD" as a way to excuse their kid's poor behavior, when it's nothing a time out or a spanking or some actual discipline wouldn't fix.

    I know the kind of kid you mean, though, because we have a few who act out like that, and it can be very frustrating. It's good that you can still keep some humor about it. What's really been bugging me lately are the kids who bite, though. This is usually in the one to two year old classes, where the kids are still teething and can't always talk very well, but we've got one or two who think their friends are chew toys, and then those kids' parents come in all bent out of shape about it. Parents annoy me in general, and unless their kid's got a chunk missing out of his cheek, I don't really see the sense in them coming to whine to me about it. Biting's one of those things you can try and prevent, but it still happens in the blink of an eye, often without any real reason. So it's not like I can promise it'll never happen again. :rolleyes:
     
  19. Angel

    Angel Lion Heart Staff Member Administrator

    I don't remember if he had it or not but that is exactly what his mother tried to do last year. She was there for about an hour or more trying to justify that his condition was to blame and not the boy. And I'm completely okay with that to a degree. It's truly her job to help him adjust and to teach him to focus and listen to instructions. Just because of his ADHD (which it most likely is), he doesn't need special treatment, in fact, he probably desires being treated stricter than the other kids for his own benefit.

    It was probably a good day for me.
    I can't image taking care of one - two year olds.
    Oh yes, parents know how to get on your nerves and they will act a fool in public. Some act just as bad as the kids. I remember this one boy was bullying another child. Well, the boy who was being bullied grandma came down. She was being rude and belligerent then she wanted to see the boy who was bothering her grandson. When she was able to talk to him, she told him that "This was the last day that he would mess with him and if he wanted to fight someone fight her" She was going on and on telling him to step outside. She had every right to be angry but I was like "Really, your a grown lady, old enough to be my grandmother and you want to fight a boy who is barely 10. Really!" Not to mention, I don't stay to watch the children play football or baseball, some of those parents. It's just sad!
    But yeah, you've probably dealt with worse since I don't necessarily deal with parents which is the front desk's job.
     
  20. Kitty

    Kitty I Survived The BG Massacre Staff Member Administrator

    Well, I hate being with the school agers. XD The younger the better for me, that way I can excuse their crying and hitting and biting as them not knowing better. And they can't talk, so no smart-assery.

    Lol. We had this one school aged boy who was dreadful. He'd sass the teachers, hurt the other kids in his class, back talk and be rude to parents of other kids, etc. Well, we'd had enough and told his grandma that he couldn't come back. She called back later to beg us to take him back, then started this rambling story about how one of the little girls in the class called her ugly when she went to pick up her grandson that day, and it really hurt her feelings. And yeah, kids are nasty sometimes, but come on? Are you, a grown woman, really gonna let an eight year old's sass get you down?

    I don't do well with the parents at all, but unfortunately as one of the bosses it's part of my job to pretend I like them. Hardest thing ever, sometimes.
     

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